tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950490374864691033.post6266965877703459636..comments2023-06-22T05:19:13.629-07:00Comments on The Blog of a Forgiven Cheater: I've Fallen In Love!Jonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01234339776242923697noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950490374864691033.post-7599698912817975792015-12-18T08:33:48.232-08:002015-12-18T08:33:48.232-08:00Hello Disappointed,
I don't want you to think...Hello Disappointed,<br /><br />I don't want you to think I'm ignoring your message. December is slammed for us with three of our boys' birthdays, our anniversary, and of course Christmas. I will write back and address your question as soon as possible (probably in early January at the latest). <br /><br />In the meantime, I HIGHLY recommend that you pick up a copy of the book, Every Heart Restored. That book will speak to your heart and might even answer your question better than I ever could. <br /><br />We'll be praying for you. Jonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234339776242923697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950490374864691033.post-54465167964217025062015-12-12T18:12:46.378-08:002015-12-12T18:12:46.378-08:00I am struggling with forgiveness. My husband cheat...I am struggling with forgiveness. My husband cheated on me and the woman had a baby. He is still home with me and the kids, but all the feelings I have suppressed for a year now is coming out. It took almost a year for him to ask for forgiveness. I know I have to forgive, bc I am a Christian and God forgives me everyday. I am not claiming to be holier than thou either. I have been faithful to him, but I used my mouth to destroy him. Although he made me feel less than, I still stayed true to my marriage. We've been married for 15 1 /2 years and together for 22. We both are 36 years old and I am proud to say that marrying at such a young age, I adored my husband. I am praying and I ask for prayer all the time to get over this madness. I know the devil comes to steal, kill, and destroy and everyone makes mistakes. I have made plenty in my days. What can I do to get over the infidelity and get back to loving my husband?Disappointedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05096522134998055627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950490374864691033.post-61519170322270772602015-12-11T23:50:16.689-08:002015-12-11T23:50:16.689-08:00Hello Anonymous - There have been a couple of post...Hello Anonymous - There have been a couple of posts with her words, "Raw Words From My Wife" http://forgivencheater.blogspot.com/2015/08/raw-words-from-my-wife.html <br />and "A Side-Note From My Wife" http://forgivencheater.blogspot.com/2015/04/a-side-note-from-my-wife.html<br />But I will ask her to write something out to cover that specific subject. Finding free time to write is a rare thing for my wife. She works full-time and she's also working on her PhD. But, the words I share are not always from my perspective. They just come across that way. Almost everything has either been discussed at length, or run by my wife before posting it for the world to see. The suggestions, guidance, insight, and advice I provide are Biblically based and come directly from the heart and mind of my wife and I together. She's almost on Christmas/Winter break. I'll see if she can spare a few hours to write a post. Thank you for your suggestion. Jonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234339776242923697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950490374864691033.post-64576923285971473142015-12-11T11:19:18.876-08:002015-12-11T11:19:18.876-08:00I enjoy your blog but I do wish your wife would sh...I enjoy your blog but I do wish your wife would share how she manages to move forward. its been 6 months since my husband of 15 years had a one night stand with someone who I thought was a close friend.sometimes it feels like we will never be the same if we are even fixable at all....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950490374864691033.post-89707670944328605832015-12-10T10:12:12.455-08:002015-12-10T10:12:12.455-08:00Hello Unknown - I'm so sorry to hear about you...Hello Unknown - I'm so sorry to hear about your painful situation. The statistics are against someone entering into a second, or even third marriage. Their relationship will probably not last. Has your ex shown any interest in asking for your forgiveness? Has your ex continued to try to maintain some kind of relationship with you?Jonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234339776242923697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950490374864691033.post-16680830261368807132015-12-10T10:09:12.162-08:002015-12-10T10:09:12.162-08:00Hello Anonymous - for us, it's been close to 2...Hello Anonymous - for us, it's been close to 2 years since I made the decision to repent and accept my wife's forgiveness. Are you saying that it's only been around 6 months for your relationship? Jonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01234339776242923697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950490374864691033.post-74519997948980483162015-12-10T07:55:58.350-08:002015-12-10T07:55:58.350-08:00My ex left me after 12 years of meeting someone on...My ex left me after 12 years of meeting someone on a dating site known him 16 weeks and 14 weeks pregnant will it last Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14255055831209554314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2950490374864691033.post-67510196495204719182015-12-10T05:32:12.420-08:002015-12-10T05:32:12.420-08:00I really hope it's real... Half a year isn'...I really hope it's real... Half a year isn't enough. Maybe 5 years. And every after that is still a struggleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com